Adulting is hard! Whether you are single, married with kids, no kids. S%*t is just hard! I’ve decided to embrace my soft girl era! You might be wondering what a soft girl era or soft life is? Soooooo let me break it down for you. Soft life, by definition, is a lifestyle of comfort and relaxation with MINIMAL challenges and stress. Doesn’t that sound wonderful?!? As a black woman, mother, daughter, wife, and resident strong friend, life can be not only hard but STRESSFUL as hell.